Is there anymore information with the e-mail Ian ?
Mauro's explanation is very plausable, whilst Oldham isnt next door to Manchester airport, its close enough to see planes lights, and to add to that a lot of the flight patterns have changed over the last few years with the opening of that new runway.
Imagine a plane coming towards you then slowly turning, one of the lights will go out quite quickly as its hidden by the body of the plane and the one you can still see will graduly dissapear as the plane turns more and the cone of light is itself hidden by the lamp surround. And the thing will still be far enough away so its engines will be quite muted.